Day Seventy-three

by V.E. on May 23rd, 2006

filed under 5reasons

  1. To Serve & Submit, a book that captures how I feel about submissive nature very well.
  2. Went to the eye doctor, dentist, and therapist today. Done with the obligatory appointments.
  3. Thinking we ran out of printer paper at a crucial moment and then finding three more reams.
  4. Being bored! (ie: not having ANYTHING to do! YAY!)
  5. Painkillers like Advil, Tylenol, Excedrin, etc etc.

Voice Post: Sleep(lessness)

by V.E. on May 23rd, 2006

filed under ladyamedeus, personal

Day Seventy-two

by V.E. on May 23rd, 2006

filed under 5reasons

  1. Letting the people at church know what I need to grow spiritually as a single, young adult.
  2. Automated phone systems; I HATE talking to people who just try to sell me something.
  3. Not being the only one in the world with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)…
  4. …and being able (and willing) to reach out for help when I need it.
  5. Having silly nicknames for all my friends… and visa versa.

Changes

by V.E. on May 23rd, 2006

filed under ladyamedeus, meta

Sooo, I got tired of the huge space that was just randomly sitting at the top of my journal and switched around the style.

The new icon is Lady Fey, a character of my own creation based loosely on what I believe I should be and would be if I wasn’t as cowardly as I am.

FMA = NO!

by V.E. on May 22nd, 2006

filed under fyi, ladyamedeus, lgbt, personal, politics

Click here to watch a free anti-Federal Marriage Amendment video and see how you can help.

Seriously, people, this is really important to me. Even if you think that same-sex marriage is wrong, the FMA is NOT the way to go.

The World of Publishing is Changing

by V.E. on May 22nd, 2006

filed under ladyamedeus, writing

By: Cherie Burbach. Originally here.
Date: May 21, 2006

It’s always interesting to me when I hear people lament about what “junk” self-published books are. Some complain they can spot a self-published work a mile away, and others claim that the quality and more importantly, writing of these works is sub-par.

I find this interesting, of course, because I am a self-published author. I find it interesting because when I read the news lately I hear that some authors, such as Kaavya Viswanathan and James Frey, knowingly misled readers, and worse, that their “traditional” publishers let it happen.

We’ve probably all heard the James Frey saga of late, but in case you haven’t heard the deal with Viswanathan, she reportedly “borrowed” large parts of her novel, How Opal Mehta Got Kissed, Got Wild, and Got a Life from fellow novelist Megan McCafferty.

Right.

Of course all in the publishing realm will be okay because both Frey and Viswanathan have apologized. And profusely apologized at that. It won’t stop them from making money, continuing with their movie and second book deals, or stop them from writing.

I understand that mistakes happen. What I don’t understand is why I hear so much about the quality of self-published works when I know from years of reading questionable traditionally published material that not everything a big house in New York will put out is good. Not even close.

I also know from attending numerous author signings that some authors get published not because of the grand quality of their writing but because they knew someone in the biz. I have no problem with authors getting published this way. What I do have a problem with is when I read these lame and misleading articles about how bad it is for an author to self-publish their own work. Some of them are so full of misinformation I have to question the motive of the people writing them. What do these people care if authors self-publish? Why would they try and dissuade authors from just trying to give their works a fighting shot?

Well… maybe… because self-publishing takes power away from the big houses. Their tight-knit, clicky mentality has failed to let them see some of the best writing out there. They pass on writing because they aren’t sure how to market it, not because it isn’t good. They pass on writing that isn’t going to make them, in their estimation, the big bucks. James Frey, on the other hand, will make them big bucks.

We all know the ups and downs of self-publishing versus traditional publishing. We know self-publishing is a good option for some, and not so much for others. But don’t be naive authors. When you read an article telling you not to self-publish because… sigh… you’ll have to market your work… keep in mind this is exactly what you’re going to have to do with a traditional publisher too. Self-publishing is different than traditional publishing. Different. Not better or worse.

Do I think authors should always self-publish first before finding a traditional publisher? No. But I also don’t believe the hype I read that states self-publishing is for the authors that couldn’t get their work published. That isn’t necessarily true. And I don’t believe all self-published books are garbage…. nor do I believe all traditionally published books are great.

What I do believe is that the world of publishing is changing. And traditional publishers had better take a look at their world and change their way of doing business. As we’ve seen in the news lately, their reputations depend on it.

Whose Afraid of the Big, Bad Left?

by V.E. on May 22nd, 2006

filed under ladyamedeus, politics

10 Reasons Why Progressives Shouldn’t Be
Posted by Suzanne Nossel. Originally here.

Peter Beinart and others are worried that the fiasco of the Iraq War will result in the resurgence of a staunchly anti-imperialist, neo-isolationist left of the sort the American public will never trust with its national security. I have been arguing for four years that progressives will not retake power if they are perceived not to trust America’s military hand around the world.

So while I agree with Peter’s premise that only a robustly internationalist liberalism can resurrect American power and redirect American policy, I think its a mistake to get distracted at this point by worrying about how to manage the left. Here’s why:

1. Talking up a hawk-dove progressive rift plays right into conservative hands – Conservatives would like nothing more than to paint the opposition as riven with divisions and wracked by isolationist, anti-interventionist sentiment. This feeds their case that progressives cannot be trusted to defend America and that tough but blundering is better than cowardly and retreatist. The fact is that progressives have come together to drive some major Congressional victories and are largely in agreement what needs to happen to put America on course. We should not help conservatives paint us otherwise.

2. 9/11 and Globalization Dealt a One-two Punch Against Isolationism – While Americans rue the conduct of the Iraq war, the combination of economic and technological globalization and the 9/11 attacks have convinced most Americans that the U.S. cannot turn away from the world. While Iraq has engendered grave misgivings about the Bush Administration’s approach, history offers many other more successful models for America’s global leadership. Most Americans, even on the far left, will be receptive to internationalism as long as it is not of the Bush variety.

3. Talk of isolationism today is greatly exaggerated – As I and others have written, Bush likes to talk about isolationism as a way to tar his critics as head-in-the-sand America-lasters. The reality is that many of his opponents have far deeper internationalist credentials than he does and that few, if any, are arguing that America can retreat from global leadership. Rather than arguing against supposed isolationists, progressives should expose Bush’s attempt to deflect legitimate criticism by crying isolationism.

4. Being anti-war doesn’t mean being anti-”a strong defense and an aggressive foreign policy” – Though the Administration would have us believe otherwise, there’s nothing incoherent about supporting assertive, effective American global leadership and believing that a) the Iraq war was anything but and b) the problems in Iraq won’t be fixed by a continued American prresence. The Fighting Dems and the retired Generals who have openly criticized the conduct of the war all advocate a strong national defense and tough line on terror regardless of where they come out on Iraq.

5. Iraq is not Vietnam – Vietnam did engender a long period of American isolationism and protracted misgivings about U.S. military intervention in virtually any form. But Iraq won’t do the same for various reasons: the mistakes and misconceptions of the Iraq adventure are so obvious that people are less prone to believe any American intervention would be similarly flawed; also, as painful as Iraq has been, casualties still are small relative to Vietnam;

6. The left want to win as badly as anyone – There aren’t too many people left in the political debate who are arguing principle without reference to to whether or how they’ll get a chance to implement what they believe. Like all other progressives, the left is driven by a resolute, frustration-induced pragmatism.

7. They learned their lesson the hard way with Ralph Nader – Nader got 2.75% of the popular vote in 2000, enough to throw the result in favor of Bush, but attracted just .4% support four years later. The left has learned that nothing can be taken for granted in elections. Given how badly they want to win, they now know not to risk it. This will be evident in this year’s Congressional races and in 2008.

8. Isolationism is Not a Factor in Policy Circles – Among the think tanks, policy institutes, and academic forums debating the future of progressive foreign policy, there’s broad consensus on the need to maintain America’s military advantages, to work aggressively and craftily to counter threats from terrorism and proliferation and to generally shore up American power and influence. While there are tactical disputes aplenty, no mainstream political candidate is going to get policy advice telling him or her to retreat globally. If isolationism won’t play out here, its hard to see how it becomes particularly damaging to progressive aspirations

9. Ordinary voters can understand the basis for anti-war, isolationist sentiment – Voters know that the grave misjudgements of the Iraq War have given interventionism a bad name. Whereas opponents of the Afghan war were seen as weak peaceniks, those who now advocate an unconditional withdrawal from Iraq have an argument that, whether or not they agree with it, voters can understand. The execution of the Iraq war has giv

10. By Fearing the Left, we Risk Losing Sight of What the Left May Have Right – We saw this in 2000 with Howard Dean and may be risking the same mistake with people like Paul Hackett. The progressive mainstream was so afraid of Dean’s meteoric ascent that they overlooked the profound mobilizing power that his perceived authenticity and straight-talk had for ordinary voters. The grassroots activism, passion and energy on the left is a force to be bottled and used, rather than bottled up. To the extent that anger over Iraq energizes people, progressives should not fear it, but should channel it in favor of an internationalist program to which both the war’s original progressive supporters and its vocal opponents could subscribe.